We are all challenged to be ready for our own call.
First of all we need to know the story. Each of us needs to read the Bible so we know for ourselves what God has done in history. We need to know what God has done in relationships with other people. Some of these stories have been exaggerated and edited for political and religious purposes. That is not the issue. The point is that there are so many stories that by reading them we can develop our own basic understanding of who God is and what God wants. The next step is to go on and develop a prayer life so we understand more clearly what God wants each of us to do and be. By getting to know the stories of Jesus for example, we can also get to know Him personally. We can talk to Him in prayer and take Him off the Cross or off the altar. We can just sit with him. As our Saviour He can help us clean out the garbage in our lives.